1. Null values for primitive types no longer clear the original value in
the destination object.
2. Dereference multiple levels of pointers in the destination interface{}
type before unmarshaling into it. This is needed to match stdlib
behavior when working with nested interface{} fields. If the destination
object is a pointer to interface{} then the incoming nil value should
nil out the destination object but keep the reference to that nil value
on its parent object. However if the destination object is an
interface{} value it should set the reference to nil but keep the
original object intact.
3. Correctly handle typed nil decode destinations.
When MarshalJSON was defined on a pointer receiver custom enum type
marshaling/unmarshaling was panicing since the underlying primitive type
was treated as a pointer.
Since method set for pointer receivers includes value receiver methods
we don't really need optionalEncoder and can just use marshalEncoder
directly.
Make sure we do the same thing as stdlib with null booleans by not
touching the original value and discarding the null.
Another somewhat related change is nulling out null interface values in
the original structure. This also matches stdlib behavior.
