This allows disabling the automatic portal bridging, meaning bridges
must be manually setup via self-servicing, by setting:
matrix_appservice_discord_bridge_enableSelfServiceBridging: true
People can toggle between them now. The playbook also defaults
to using SQLite if an external Postgres server is used.
Ideally, we'd be able to create databases/users in external Postgres
servers as well, but our initialization logic (and `docker run` command,
etc.) hardcode too many things right now.
If a service is enabled, a database for it is created in postgres with a uniqque password. The service can then use this database for data storage instead of relying on sqlite.
